Changes...

Have you ever noticed that every time you actually get used to one thing or learn its importance things change. Its really annoying and but so true...its like everything in life has a fixed time period and it is within that time period that we are to make optimum use of the present situation or you have missed an opportunity. It is then in the past and all the sobbing and remembering of that particular moment is of no use and just affects the present.

Changes are a part of life and sooner or later we're going to have to accept that,after long years of rebelling against this fact i have finally given in and honestly...its like making peace with life, its almost easier to live now, knowing that nothing is under your control and we must simply just go with the flow. But along with this knowledge i believe it is also very important for one to know that every cloud has a silver lining and just like all bad phases this one will pass too.This is where the saying "There are no coincidences in life,everything happens for a reason" holds true for me.

Recently life has been taking weird twists and turns and after all that i am confident enough to safely say that i am now mature enough to handle at least most of them.But i will never make the mistake of saying i have grown use to or familiar with these changes as they always tend to surprise me and the minute I'm about to see a pattern in all that mess that has been created..i am proven wrong and realize that the future is something i cant and shouldn't try to predict. All this though is still new to me.. loosing people, meeting people, a changing lifestyle, uncertain feelings and an overall imbalance in my life, but then i guess its a similar case for most of us.

After all this i still believe that change is necessary, we need to be able to adjust and understand not only our lives but also lives of others and its only when we loose or gain something that we can do so. So i guess the most positive to way to take change is as a new adventure with new possibilities that don't always have to seem right at first, It makes us believe that anything is possible and sometimes that is best for us.

I've learnt that We need to be able to absorb everything life gives us, good and bad because if you haven't seen both sides of the coin u really haven't seen anything at all.

In the end this reminds me of this line that's present in my book of thought provoking words on wisdom and i personally believe in this with all my heart, You cannot discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.